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It's weirding me out that the last two times I've seen Ray, he's been
wearing an Indiana University t-shirt that I bought him six or ten years
ago. I keep wanting to confiscate it. "That's *my* history! You leave it
alone!"

On the other hand, he's quietly begun to accept and acknowledge my
relationship with Chris and Tammie: when filling out paperwork for
Rosa's school on Thursday, he wrote "all parents" rather than "both".
Yesterday he said something about there being a child in Rosa's class
that she'd have something in common with: "he has two mommies".
Apparently he had chatted with the mommies in question after we left the
school orientation.

I said to Tammie, "I *thought* there'd been a lesbian couple that came
in at the very end!"