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[semperfiona]

After more than five years...Amber Cold War comes to an abrupt end due to Real Life difficulties: Paul's wife has been jealous of our game for years--it's one of her control issues--and it now seems to have come to a point where they may divorce over those issues. I don't know what I think of that, despite having been in very much the same boat myself I don't really recommend divorce. I don't like to give advice, come to that; I'd much rather listen and ask questions and let the person come to their own conclusions. But over the years I've heard a lot of unhappiness from him, and very little of happiness.

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Its probably best to let people come to their own conclusions; it is what therapists are trained to do, anyway.

I've been in the same boat too, too many times, and would still hate to say to soemone I thought leaving was the best move. Its just so hard.